Success has never been achieved based solely
upon talent, circumstance, brains, or even courage. It is obtained when
specific goals are combined with an organized plan, commitment to that plan is
combined with a belief that it is possible, and daily action is combined with
continual persistence despite the inevitable failures that will occur along the
journey. Because one of the underlying reasons as to why people fail is that
they do not know how to set and achieve goals, then understanding the formula above
is critical in order to realize and accomplish any of our goals, dreams, and
successes in life. Never forget, however, that understanding and implementing
are not the same - the later is much more challenging and necessary.
Successful individuals understand how to set
goals, and they implement what is necessary to achieve their goals. Below are
15 tips relating to goal setting that are necessary to achieve your dreams and
personal successes:
1) Dream Big: The great Michelangelo once
said: "The greater danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high
and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it." You can become
and accomplish anything - but in order to achieve that 'anything' you have to
not only dream big, but also ensure your goals are big so that you can become
and accomplish big things.
2) Written Down: Put pen to paper and write
your goals down.
3) Completely Committed: Emerson was not
lying when he said that the world makes way for those individuals who know who
they are and where they are going. Determine your goals, write them down, and
then completely commit to them every day. Never forget that complete commitment
entails doing whatever necessary to accomplish the goal - despite the work
required, criticism from others, or potential failures along the way.
4) Reviewed Daily: After writing down your
goals, put them in a place to be looked at and re-committed to every day.
Therein is the secret for success - not just looking at your goals each day,
but completely re-committing to them every day. This practice should also
suggest the absolute necessity of daily planning. Reviewing your goals should
coincide with going over your calendar, establishing specific to-do's for the
day, and actually writing down an agenda every day - and sticking to it.
5) Revised Often: The end goal should rarely
change, but the specific plan and daily actions on how to accomplish that goal
may need occasional revising.
6) Specific Action Plans: Goals are not
enough. A detailed, written, organized, and specific plan is absolutely
necessary. A goal is merely a futile hope if the end result is a dream with no
specific daily action plan of what is required to accomplish it.
7) Short-Term vs. Long-Term: Long-term goals
are the hope, the dream, and the accomplishment. Short-term goals are the daily
actions, the specific plan, and the reason long-term goals are achieved. Both
are critical. Never forget, however, that those who accomplish the long-term
goal are those who persist despite the short-term challenges, effort, and even
failures.
8) Daily To-Do List: After your short-term
goals have been established, perhaps the most important document and element
necessary for the accomplishment of your goals is a daily to-do list. Each day
you will plan your day's activities and schedule, and part of this process will
include placing 5 activities on your daily to-do list. Because you are
committed to your goals, you will not retire for that day until each activity
has been accomplished. It is vital, however, that everything listed on those 5
daily activities will contribute to and eventuate in the accomplishment of the
goal. It is not enough to fill your day with activities if they are not revenue
producing, accomplishing a short-term goal, or will eventually result in the
long term goal being realized.
9) Fears, Doubts, & Failures: Like
everyone, fears will arise and others will doubt you as you pursue your goals.
Remember that the only limitations in life are the one's we create, believe,
and nourish within our own minds. If and when failures happen, as they often
do, view them as learning experiences, what not to do, and getting one step
closer. Keep in mind that the road blocks, detours, and dead-end streets along
the journey only become difficulties when we take our focus, commitment, and
eyes off of our goals.
10) Reachable & Realistic: As important
as it is to dream big, be reasonable. Ensure your goals are set high enough to
challenge you, but not so unrealistically that you become unmotivated and
discouraged.
11) Measurable & Deadlines: After your
goals have been written, specified, and organized, you also need to track and
measure them. Create a system or spreadsheet that specifically tracks your
progress. Ask yourself 'how much' and 'by when' and stick to the plan. Because
successful people review their goals daily, they not only look at and re-commit
to the goals, but also assess where they are at, what else needs to be done and
by when, and then they do what is necessary to stay on track and schedule.
12) Punishments & Rewards: Hold yourself
accountable. As you establish short-term deadlines, if you hit your short-term
goal, reward yourself. However, if you do not, establish a punishment - and
stick to it.
13) Vocalize & Share Your Goals: Commit
to vocally reading / reciting your goals daily. In addition, review them
mentally all the time. Perhaps most importantly, inform others of your goals,
which automatically makes you more committed to achieving them. Ideally, a
spouse, family member, or friend will also commit to holding you accountable,
tracking your progress, carrying out punishments and rewards, and helping and
encouraging you along the journey.
14) Law of Attraction: You absolutely must
surround yourself with individuals who will inspire, encourage, and support you
in your desire and pursuit of your goal. Doing so will attract like-minded
people who will not only encourage but also help you achieve your goal.
15) Do Not Quit: The accomplishment of our
goals requires belief, action, and persistence. However, difficulties and
failures will happen. Never forget that the majority of personal successes in
life have been accomplished after the individual determines to not give up when
they experience a failure. Because you originally were completely committed to
your goals, you are not only willing to put in the necessary work required for
success, but are completely determined that regardless of what happens along
the journey to your goals and dreams - you will never quit.
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Matthew Toone works to inspiring people to achieve their goals and dreams, live up to
their full potential, and learn the secrets for success in anything. As a successful
entrepreneur, Matt recently accomplished one of his dreams - to write a book!
His book is entitled: "Great Games! 175 Games & Activities for
Families, Groups, & Children." He is prolific in family-oriented music.
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